What’s relative and what’s absolute?

You and I don’t see things as they are, we see things as we are

Sherif Rizq

“You and I don’t see things as they are, we see things as we are”

Herb Cohen

This quote has truly settled a dispute that has always been troubling a lot of people, however, I don’t think it is yet worked out. I don’t believe either it will be settled. Many people will always keep asking who or what is absolutely right? The second question is even more difficult, if I am absolutely right then the other person is undoubtedly wrong. There may never be an answer to such questions. What’s relative and what’s absolute?

What’s absolute to a Christian is not absolute to a Jew, and may be totally absurd to a Hindu or a Muslim. And the same applies to cultures; what’s considered acceptable in a certain culture is totally unacceptable in a different culture. Eating pork for example,  is acceptable in Christianity, however it is not permitted either in Judaism or Islam. It is permitted, under certain conditions, to marry four women in Islam, It is not allowed in Christianity. Eating dogs in some parts of Korea is acceptable, however people in other areas would feel disgusted by that. In almost all Christian sects there is no divorce. In Islam divorce is allowed. In some African tribes a woman can marry more than one man. In many parts of the world people have sex before marriage and they don’t feel guilty about it, yet on other parts they feel terrible about thinking of sex or hugging. It is complicated isn’t it? There are so many examples in this life. If one thinks so deeply about trying to come up with absolute things in life, one would definitely reach nothing. Yet, believing in Herb Cohen’s quote would solve such an entangled problem. People are and have always been different. We react to things differently, we view God differently. It is a dilemma, isn’t it?

The way I see it is completely different. I see it as man’s search for love. In our search for love and happiness we come across many things, yet one should never loose love. Life is all based on that. So in our convictions or beliefs, if love is not present then one has to recheck his beliefs. Differences should always enrich life. To enjoy life one has to enjoy such differences.  When we truly love we never label whom we love, we love them as they are, whether they are Muslims, Hindus, Scientologists, Christians, Non-believers , whether they are poor or rich, whether they are Sudanese, Americans, Italians or Tunisians.

Love could conquer all barriers. God is love. And that’s how I view God.

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3 responses to “What’s relative and what’s absolute?”

  1. Inas Ayad says :

    reminded me somehow with ” Eat, Pray , love” book on its part of India ..”In our search for love and happiness we come across many things, yet one should never loose love.” Very good one

  2. Sam Wazan says :

    I can’t age with you more. Keep love and your messages coming.

  3. Marianne Horling says :

    Thank you for this article! We just discussed this between friends and came to the same solution.

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